Ways to Deal with the Kid Who Pushes Your Buttons
One of the hardest aspects of parenting is to deal with the kid who never stops to push your buttons. But then, it really depends upon the triggers that make the parents go into fight or flight mode. For instance, if we grew up in a family which had been obsessed with the cleanliness, we are going to have this very same obsession for sure. This obsession is, sometimes, so strong that we cannot bear to watch our kids playing with the mud and getting hands and clothes dirty. Same thing go for the behavior. For example, the negligence we would face in our childhood can come back to haunt us when we see our kid shouting at us and saying, “ I hate you ”. Summing up, we can say that the things which get us triggered are usually the ones we have been experiencing in our childhood. But there is also good news if our children repeat that behavior in front of us. These behaviors in children can give us the opportunity to heal ourselves. These triggers are usually pressed more often